The Harsh Truths You Will Accept if You Want to Be Successful
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I’ve yet to meet anyone who doesn’t want to be successful. But to meet that goal, you have to have a solid sense of philosophies that actually work in the office and ones that are…well, let’s just call them crap.
The three myths that stop talented people back
1. The idea of work-life balance is something to obsess over.
“The fact is, if you really want to climb that corporate ladder, or start your own company successful, it’s going to take a LOT of work. Sure, you can say that you are only going to work 9-5, and that can work, as long as you talk everyone else in the company, or every other startup in the world, into only working 9-5 — and that is just not happening. It takes work, and that takes time, period.”
life isn’t made up of only two things (work and the rest of your life). It’s actually a big mash of many things, such as church, hobbies, and friends. And each of those can get broken down even more, for instance by splitting family into parents and siblings.
2. Failure is a fact of life.
“You hear a lot about failure nowadays, from failure is OK if not desirable to this idea of ‘failing fast’. But I don’t really believe in failure. Sure, ideas fail, products fail, companies fail, and I have been to entire countries that have failed. But you only fail when you give up. Otherwise, it is just an experience.”
In other words
Don’t worry about whether you met some crazy, arbitrary, socially-constructed standards. Just worry about doing the absolute best you can, and be aware of what every moment brings to you, objectively learning about yourself and the world at every step. The end result might not be what you expected or wanted, but you’ll still have more information and maturity to direct future decisions than when you started. That’s always a win and successful way.
3. The corporate ladder is for everybody.
“I’m telling you, if you want to climb that corporate ladder or if you want to start a company, it is going to take a lot of work, no matter how smart you are (or more likely, think you are),” says Moody. “Take Lebron James or Tom Brady, two people that are naturally talented, but do you really think they won all those rings without working really hard? I mean, really hard. But that world is not for everyone, and you shouldn’t really care what others are doing or telling you to do.
So while you should try to find work you like, it’s OK if you’re not in the C-Suite. Titles don’t mean success. Being able to end the day happy with yourself and yoursituation does.