Since the creation of the mobile phone, texting has been a major game-changer in relationships and hookups. You can text with someone in another corner of the globe without having to meet physically. Most people feel more comfortable texting because they get to avoid the stigma that comes with face to face chat.
But sometimes, the text game might be confusing for guys, especially when she gives a lot of mixed signals. During texting, there is little to no emotions passed across, making it difficult to determine how she actually feels about you.
Signs a girl is into you over texting
1. She initiates the conversation
She’s not scared to reach out first and looks for every opportunity to start a conversation with you. Her frequently initiating the conversation over text, is a solid sign that she’s into you, whether you’re both friends or not. She can’t stooping thinking about you and wants to be in your presence while you’re away.
2. She replies fast
When she doesn’t waste any time to reply to your texts is another solid sign she’s into you. She’s ready to pause whatever she’s doing just to text you back and keep the conversation flowing.
So if you’re texting a girl and she wastes no time to reply, then she’s most likely is into you. But before arriving at this conclusion find out from others she texts with if you can, if she equally replies to their text fast as well. If she does, then it’s just in her nature to reply fast
3. She puts lol and haha’s where it’s not required a lot
A good example
boy: what are doing right now?
girl: Am at the bakery store, LOL…
I mean there’s nothing funny about being in a bakery store so why is she laughing out loud. This doesn’t mean she actually laughing, but it’s just a way girls use to render the conversation more relaxed and a little bit flirty.
4. She uses emojis in her text
Emojis are a great way to pass across emotions and facial expressions through a text conversation. If she uses emojis frequently, then she wants you to picture in mind the way she feels about the conversation and you.
5. She keeps on texting when you don’t respond
This is another solid sign a girl is into you over text. When you don’t respond to her text, she’ll text you multiple times to find out why you are not replying back. This because she’s already anticipating talking to you, and feels worried when you don’t text back
6. She doesn’t end the conversation
When she texts with you, she doesn’t want to end the conversation, even though it’s late at night, or she has got her hands full. Texting with you gets her excited and triggers the secretion of dopamine hormone, which pushes her to go miles just to prolong the conversation.
7. She uses actual sentences and not dry words
She correctly spells her words, uses a lot of punctuation marks, and forms full sentences, rather than single dry words. She’s trying to give you a good opinion about her, shows you that she is an intellect (smart), and wants to smoother the conversation for better understanding.
A good example
girl: What are doing…..
girl: How was your day?
8. She sends you pictures of herself and her environment
If she frequently sends you pictures of her and what she’s doing then she’s transmitting a solid message to you. “Hey look at how cool I look”, “check me out”, “Am amazing“, “what do you think”, “wanna hang out?”…
She’s secretly seeking your approval on what she’s doing and wants to make you feel more attracted to her.
9. She texts frequently
She texts you all the time and wants to know what you’re up to at every minute of the day. This can be a clear solid sign a girl is into you.
10. She gives clear reasons for her departure
If you’re in a conversation with her, and she has to leave, she’ll give you a good reason for ending the conversation, and when next she’ll be available. This might not be a clear sign she’s into you, because some girls do this not to appear rude to you.
11. She uses flirty language
If your texting with her can escalate up to this point, then you shouldn’t doubt she’s into you, especially when she uses desiring flirty language. She’s declaring her interest in you and wants you to take action.
12. She asks a lot of personal questions
When she asks a lot of personal questions about you like: where you from? what’s your best food? what’s your favorite sport, what’re your goals in life, which career would you like to pursue….
If she preys around your personal life then it’s a good and solid sign she’s into you. It means she’s interested in you and she’s already sizing your personality whether you’re a good match for her
13. She invites you over
If she invites you over into her personal spaces, which could be on a date or her house, then she’s into you. She’ll only do this if she feels comfortable and relaxed with you over text and wants to escalate the relationship to the next level.
14. She gives you a lot of compliments
If she compliments you a lot over text, it shows she admires you and pictures you already as boyfriend material. Though this might not be enough to conclude, it can equally be a solid sign she’s into you through text.